
In a large mixing bowl combine graham cracker crumbs and 4 tbsp melted butter and mix well. Set aside
In a separate mixing bowl combine 1 tbsp melted butter, cream cheese, confectioner sugar, milk and vanilla. Stir until mixture is smooth and creamy. If the consistency is too thick, add more milk.
Add one heaping spoonful of graham cracker crust mixture to each jar and press down with the back of a spoon.
Layer other ingredients as follows: sliced bananas (approx. 5 slices per jar, large heaping spoonful of filling, spoonful of crushed pineapple, sliced strawberries
Top with whipped topping and sprinkle with chopped pecans